The Case for Wearing Statement Jewelry on an Ordinary Day

Tuesday doesn't need to earn the beautiful thing. Neither does Monday. Neither do you.

Nobody is coming over on Mondays.

I work from home — coffee, emails, admin work for my job at Innisfree Village. No meetings I need to look a certain way for. No market table to set up, no customers to greet. Just me and my laptop and whatever the week decided to throw at me before 9am.

And still, every single Monday, I put on a pair of earrings.

It doesn't have to be a particular pair. It doesn't have to match what I'm wearing or fit any kind of occasion. It just has to be something beautiful. Something that, when I catch a glimpse of myself on a video call or pass a mirror on the way to refill my coffee, makes me feel like myself.

I didn't always understand why I did this. It felt a little indulgent, maybe even a little silly — getting dressed up for an audience of one. But I've stopped questioning it, because I know what happens on the rare morning I skip them. Something feels off. Not wrong exactly, just — incomplete. Like forgetting to put on your watch. Your wrist feels naked and you notice it all day.

That's when I understood what the earrings are actually for.

They're not for anyone else. They never were.

We've been sold this idea that getting dressed — really dressed, beautifully dressed — is something you do for other people. For a night out. For a job interview. For a first date or a big presentation or some occasion worthy enough to justify the effort. The rest of the time, apparently, we're supposed to save it.

I don't buy that anymore.

The earrings I put on at 8am on a Monday morning, before the emails and the to-do lists and the second cup of coffee — those are an act of care. For myself. A small, deliberate decision that says: today matters. I matter. Not because anything significant is happening, but because Tuesday doesn't need to earn the beautiful thing. Neither does Monday. Neither do you.

There's something about jewelry specifically that does this in a way other things don't.

A bold pair of earrings doesn't require a special outfit or a particular occasion. It just requires you to put it on. And once it's on, it changes something — not in the room, not for anyone watching, but in how you move through your own day. A little taller, maybe. A little more yourself.

I make jewelry because I believe in that feeling. I believe every woman deserves to feel it on the days that don't seem to warrant it — especially on those days, actually. The ordinary Tuesday. The working-from-home Monday. The day nothing special is happening and you're the only one who will know you wore them.

Wear them anyway.

The shop is full of pieces made exactly for days like this. Find the pair that's yours.

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